I recently read through some social media discussion of this particular phrase: “renting is throwing away money.” As someone who studies suburbs and housing, what do people mean in the United States with this phrase? Here are a few dimensions of this and some historical and social context:

1. In more recent decades, Americans have shifted to viewing homeownership more as a vehicle for investment and making money. Houses are not just places to live; people expect them to appreciate in value and provide profits over the years. (And in some places, homes have quintupled in value over several decades.) Renters do not get to share in this built equity while the landlord could cash out both in monthly payments and a sale down the road. If homeownership is primarily about buying a property to see it appreciate, then renters are missing out on this opportunity.
2. However, homeownership in the United States is not just about making money. Homeownership signals something involving status, social class, and a commitment to a community. Homeowners have made it. Their ability to purchase a home is a signal of their industriousness and commitment to a community. They may raise a family there. Yes, they can sell the home down the road but they have bought into a particular place and put their money into a particular community. This is less about a personal return on investment and more of a marker of the homeowner and their ties to their neighbors and neighborhood.
3. In contrast, renters are often treated differently than homeowners. They can be viewed as more transient and less interested in building up the local community. They may be assumed to be lower-income or less desirable residents for the community. Rentable units are a threat to community and single-family home property owners. (I have found this particularly true in wealthier suburban settings where opposition to apartments is often framed in terms of who might live there. More expensive apartments do not attract the same opposition even if residents still might be opposed to density, the height of the building, traffic, etc.)

Summing up: in an era with a hyperfocus on investment, homeownership can be viewed as a better long-term return on investment than renting. Additionally, Americans often view homeownership as more virtuous and more desirable for community life than renting. Put these together and there are long-standing concerns regarding renting and apartments.